My Reasons

October 4, 2009

I was reading this article11 Reasons He Dumped You in the morning  and it made me remember some of the failed relationships I had and also of those people around me. I really wish I read this article before I decided to dump any girl lool

To summarize it, the writer first mentioned the 3 most common reasons on why a woman would dump her man:

  1. He changed
  2. We weren’t compatible
  3. He cheated on me

Then he moves to mention the reasons for men to dump their women:

  1. I Got Bored
  2.  One of Us Was Too Serious
  3. Burnout
  4. I Was Tempted To Cheat
  5. All My Friends Broke Up With Their Girlfriends
  6. Divergent Lives
  7. Feeling Selfish
  8. I “Misread” My Feelings
  9. My Friends Or Family Didn’t Like Her
  10. I Took Her For Granted
  11. She Was Too Negative

In my relationships, my reasons were we are not compatible and also divergent lives since eventually I had to return back home. One real reason that I didn’t tell the girl was that I actually fell in love with someone else while I was with her but I never told her because that will surely break her heart.

So what are your reasons for breaking up and ending the relationship with your partner? Will you tell the whole truth or you will hide things that you think will hurt him or her more?

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7 Responses to “My Reasons”

  1. ohDear!! said

    Sometimes it’s that someone wants something and the other one wants something else, like most likely, the girl wants to get married, boy doesn’t or not planning to now.
    Hmmm, mine: he can’t make me happy!

  2. The Moos said

    who cant make u happy now? i am confused! in ur other comment u said u r obsessed about a guy. is he the same person?

  3. Mad Art said

    Ummm , about your question ..
    I have to tell the truth in a way or another , but if the half of my reasons would hurt his feelings , i’d skip it . I don’t want to hurt him twice :)
    But i wont lie and make up a whole new reason !

    Where do u read this article ? sounds interesting ^^

  4. C said

    Well mine is complicated,it involved A,B and C. A knows B and C will eventually fall in love if they meet each other,that’s why A approached C and he disguised as personality of B and always seek advise from B. Then B told A, what about you let me meet C but A refused. Then C fell for A (who is a reflection of B) which C later found out that it was all fake and A was not what C thought! Fate made a practical joke on B and C. They stay parallel in apartment but they never met, they stares at the same sky every night, walk on the same path, using the stairs but they never meet. One day fate decided to be on their side, they met one day. They fell in love and C found out the truth behind all the lies. B and C decided to be together and A was the one who is on their way all this while. So C called off everything with A :D That’s my story, bored huh!

  5. C said

    Wow I felt relieved after I spilled out! Everyone sees me as the bad guy all this while, even in blogger, they were shock about my decision :D I’m glad I found B! I know I hurt A but I just want to be with the one I love all the while. It’s always B the one I love behind all these veils :)

  6. The Moos said

    mad art, i saw the article in the main page of yahoo and i put the link for the whole article :)

    C, that’s a very complicated alphabetical situation lol.. i’m glad u found the 1 :) )

  7. I never had a significant other, so i really can’t answer your question but the reasons guys had made me laugh :) – all my friends dumped their girlfriends. Seriously now? Doesn’t it embarrass them to admit it? haha hilarious :D
    I have to admit — the girls were more forward and reasonable ;)
    I hope everyone doesn’t go through break-ups and they all fall in love with one person over and over again :) (unrealistic of me, but hey, a girl can hope :) )

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